For Elena · On Her 38th Birthday

38 Reasons to Love You

A bunch of memories that just start to describe what makes you so special.

With all my love, Agustin

My Dearest Monko

My dearest Monko,

One reason for every year. A few made me laugh out loud as I wrote them, a few made me stop and smile for a minute, and every single one is true.

Swipe through slowly, enjoy the cartoons of our little crew, and remember every step of our journey. Happy 38th birthday.

Part I How it all began Chinawhite cocktails & instant chemistry
I Reasons 1–5

How it all began

The Spark, London Days & Early Adventures

✨ Chinawhite Carnival Night Chinawhite Carnival Night Elena & the £££ Carnival Cocktails
01 Part I · London · Chinawhite

The Italian Carnival at Chinawhite

Because of that magical Italian carnival night at Chinawhite when Lorena introduced us—where the instant chemistry and effortless connection made me completely forget (almost) how extortionately expensive the cocktails were.

🎾 Court Sprints & Kissy Kisses London squash sprints Energizing every sprint with kissy kisses!
02 Part I · London · Our Building

London Squash & Tennis "Sprints"

Because even though sports aren't your life, you happily played squash in your London building with me, and endured tennis sprints—energizing me with kissy kisses every other minute between rallies.

💝 The Age Gap Irony Age Gap Courtyard Date Giving this nine-years-older guy a shot!
03 Part I · Nine Years, One Chance

The Age Gap Gamble

For giving this nine-years-older guy a shot! Your dad was originally so worried about our age gap... only to end up with a woman twenty years younger than him!

🛶 Venice & Murano Glass Venice Gondola & Murano Gondolas & Murano treasures
04 Part I · Venice Firsts

Dodgy Rooms & Gondolas

Because our first trip to Venice proved we can handle anything together—even dodgy hotel rooms and impossibly loud neighbors, as long as we had our romantic gondola ride through the quiet canals and fell in love with the charming glass of Murano.

✍️ Lloyds TSB London Elena at Lloyds TSB Charming every British colleague
05 Part I · London · Lloyds TSB

The Lloyds TSB Leap

Because you took the leap into British corporate banking at Lloyds TSB, utterly charming every colleague with your warmth, brilliance, and signature smile.

Part II The Quirk of Us Your calm wisdom & adoring smile
II Reasons 6–10

The Quirk of "Us"

How You Patiently Civilized Me

💝 The Emotional Translator The Emotional Translator Hand on hand with wisdom & cat Pablo
06 Part II · Blunt In, Kind Out

The Emotional Translator

For being my emotional translator and kindness filter, offering gentle clarity, compassionate wisdom, and soothing comfort whenever life gets hectic.

😁 The 1000-Watt Smile The Delivery Smile Elena lighting up the doorway
07 Part II · Every Dinner Party

The Delivery Smile

Because of your world-famous 1000-watt smile—opening the front door with such effortless, radiant warmth that even delivery couriers are left grinning ear-to-ear.

🥦 Culinary Miracle The Veggie Miracle Elena winking in her floral apron
08 Part II · Every Single Day

The Veggie Miracle

Because of your culinary magic—skillfully turning fresh vegetables into delicious creations and miraculously convincing a carnivore like me to happily eat greens.

👔 Elena-Approved Style The Personal Stylist Dressing room blazer fitting
09 Part II · Wardrobe Department

The Personal Stylist

For being my personal stylist with an impeccable, loving eye—affectionately adjusting my collar and ensuring I always look my sharpest.

🎶 Singing: 2/10 · Hype: 1000% My Ultimate Hype Woman Belt-singing rockstar & laughing in tears
10 Part II · Front Row, Always

My Ultimate Hype Woman (and Singing Critic)

For enthusiastically hyping me up while doubling over in pure laughter on the sofa whenever I passionately belt-sing into a wooden spoon.

Part III Adventures & Passions Across the Map Always ready for the next ride together
III Reasons 11–17

Adventures & Passions Across the Map

From Bali Scooters & French Chalets to Patagonia & Cambodia

🛵 Bali Rice Terrace Sprint Bali Scooter Sprint Open-face helmets & holding on tight!
11 Part III · Bali & Beyond

The Bali Scooter Ride

Because of that unforgettable scooter ride in Bali—wearing our open-face retro helmets, weaving past lush green rice terraces while you held on tight around my waist with the wind in your hair.

☕ Rice Paddies, Luwak & Diving Bali Jungle & Diving Rice paddies, Luwak coffee & diving baptism!
12 Part III · Bali · Kopi Luwak

The Bali Jungle & Diving Safari

Because of your incredible adventurous spirit—heading out with a driver into the Bali rice paddy fields, tasting Luwak coffee and exploring every island eccentricity, and bravely taking on your diving baptism.

🏝️ Speedboats & Paddle Boards Island Escapes Thai & Cambodian island adventures
13 Part III · Island Days

Island Escapes & Paddle Boards

For our unforgettable island escapes across Thailand and Cambodia—whether skimming across turquoise bays on a speedboat or balancing side-by-side on a paddle board under tropical skies.

🧀 Melted Raclette Feast Alpine Feasts Bubbly raclette cheese & snowy pines
14 Part III · The French Alps

Alpine Feasts in France

Because you understand that the real point of a ski trip isn't conquering black runs—it's cozying up inside a warm French chalet with good wine and an obscene amount of melted raclette cheese.

⛵ Rosé & Captain Marteau Port Grimaud Sailing Sailing with Captain Marteau (expert sunbather!)
15 Part III · France · With Your Family

Sailing & Rosé in Port Grimaud

For lazy, sun-soaked days in the South of France—in Port Grimaud and Biot, sipping crisp rosé and enjoying sailing with Captain Marteau (where you wisely let everyone else do the hard sailing while you perfected the art of sunbathing).

🇦🇷 Gauchos, Empanadas & Luca Embracing Argentina Empanadas, chorizos & carrying Luca around BA
16 Part III · Patagonia · Argentina

Embracing Argentina

Because you embraced Argentina and my roots with open arms—loving the gauchos, devouring hot empanadas and sizzled chorizos, and carrying little Luca around Buenos Aires with so much joy.

🪷 The Sinking Lotus Canoe Cambodia Lotus Canoe The whole family in the lotus canoe!
17 Part III · Cambodia

Sunset Over the Cambodian Lotus Farm

For that unforgettable sunset on the Cambodian lotus farm with the whole family—guided by a sweet little old lady who spoke zero English, making lotus hats for the boys while our wooden boat was quietly and slowly filling with water!

Part IV Big Leaps & Weddings Sunshine, big leaps & family first
IV Reasons 18–25

The Big Leaps, Weddings & Family Loyalty

Hatton Garden, Cyprus Sunshine, Sleep Coaching & Saudi

💎 The Hatton Garden Ring London Birthday Proposal Radiating excitement at our London table
18 Part IV · London · Hatton Garden

The London Birthday Proposal

Because popping the question on your birthday in London was pure magic. Even though we had scouted Hatton Garden together for your dream ring, when the moment finally came, you were radiating pure, breathless excitement.

☀️ Halloumi, Goats & Latsi Days The Gift of Cyprus Cyprus sunshine, souvlakia & dreams of goats
19 Part IV · Latsi · Cyprus

The Gift of Cyprus

Because you gifted me a lifelong love for Cyprus, its warm people, and its incredible food. From sunny beach days in Latsi devouring souvlakia to dreaming that one day we might live there together, happily surrounded by fresh halloumi and goats.

⛵ The Dimitris Charis BBQ Dimitris Charis Boat BBQ Planned in 3 weeks aboard the Dimitris Charis!
20 Part IV · Anassa · Cyprus

The 3-Week Wedding & Dimitris Charis

For pulling off our dream wedding celebration in just three weeks (apologies to our friends scattered across the globe!). Celebrating aboard the Dimitris Charis boat barbecue, living it up at the Anassa, and baby Luca's unforgettable christening of his grandmother's dress!

🛡️ Fierce Family Devotion Fierce Family Guardian Giving everything to the people you love
21 Part IV · Family First

Fierce Family Guardian

Because your heart is endlessly giving—you are fiercely protective of your family and watch over everyone with such total devotion that you even forget about yourself, like stopping to eat lunch or drink a simple glass of water.

✨ Smashing Eyes & Best Cuddles Smashing Brown Eyes Mesmerizing eyes, Cypriot charm & warmest cuddles
22 Part IV · Holding The Line

Those Smashing Brown Eyes & Cypriot Charm

Because you are undeniably stunning—with those smashing, huge brown eyes that light up every room, irresistible Cypriot charm, and the warmest, most comforting cuddles in the world.

🌍 Lifelong Family Friendships Global Friendships Albert & Sara, Eric & Noelle, and friends worldwide
23 Part IV · Gentle Sleep Genie

Our Global Circle of Friends

Because of how beautifully we build lifelong friendships together that fit our family like a glove—from cherished times with Albert & Sara, Eric & Noelle, to so many dear friends scattered all across the world.

🚂 Europa School & Boundary Park Europa School & Boundary Park Historic stone school & sunny park afternoons
24 Part IV · Leaving London

The Oxfordshire Chapter & Boundary Park

Because you led our move to Oxfordshire to get the boys into the wonderful Europa School in Culham, bringing us so many happy memories in Didcot, running around and laughing together at Boundary Park.

🌙 Our Arabian Adventure Saudi Aramco Chapter Palm promenade under sunset & crescent moon
25 Part IV · Dhahran · Saudi Arabia

The Saudi Aramco Chapter

For embracing our bold chapter in Saudi Arabia with Aramco—building a rich, adventurous life together under desert skies and golden Arabian sunsets.

Part V Our Home & The Boys Our warm home, the boys & the cats
V Reasons 26–32

Our Home & The Boys

Luna & Pablo, First-Class Design, and Raising Luca & Nico

🐾 Luna & Pablo Luna & Pablo Enveloped by purrs from Luna & Pablo
26 Part V · Luna & Pablo

The Unshakeable Cat Lover

For your boundless love for Luna and Pablo—curled up in bliss as they purr against your shoulder, turning a non-cat home into a feline paradise.

✨ First-Class Design Eye Design Eye Curating every room with elegance & style
27 Part V · First-Class Honours

The First-Class Eye for Design

Because of your first-class eye for design and aesthetics—effortlessly transforming every home we touch into a warm, elegant, magazine-worthy haven.

🏡 Elena & Her "3 Boys" Managing Three Children Keeping Agustin, Luca & Nico in line
28 Part V · Household HQ

Managing "Three Children"

For withstanding the heroic daily challenge of managing 'three boys'—patiently keeping Luca, Nico, and an overgrown husband fed, loved, and civilized.

🌟 Born Ready · Luca Born Ready Born ready from day one!
29 Part V · First Try

Born Ready

For stepping into motherhood with pure grace and fearless love—holding baby Luca with that undeniable knowing that you were born ready for this.

💫 Awe-Inspiring Strength Water Births Sacred awe welcoming our boys
30 Part V · Luca & Nico

Water Births & Cord Cutting

For your awe-inspiring strength during the boys' births, and the profound, unforgettable honor of cutting the cord beside you.

🌙 Sleepless Starry Nights Motherhood Devotion Rocking baby under starry nursery skies
31 Part V · The Night Feeds

Fierce Motherhood Devotion

For your fierce, tireless devotion through sleepless nights—rocking our babies under starry skies and giving every ounce of your soul to their happiness.

🍦 Pure Maternal Magic Heart of Luca & Nico Sweet soft-serve ice cream smiles
32 Part V · Maternal Intuition

The Heart of Luca & Nico

Because you are the emotional anchor and brightest sun in the universe for Luca and Nico—their confidante, comfort, and greatest cheerleader.

Part VI Daily Rituals & The Future Rosé in the sun & our golden future together
VI Reasons 33–38

Daily Rituals & The Future

Bedtime Angles, Gourmet Chocolate, Nico's Giggles & Rosé in the Sun

📐 Door Open at Exact 37.5° Bedtime Protocol Strict door angles & loving goodnights
33 Part VI · Lights Out, Together

The Sacred Bedtime Protocol

For the sacred, non-negotiable bedtime protocol—ensuring the bedroom door remains cracked open at the exact 37.5-degree angle with comforting hallway glow.

🍫 Neny Chocolate Marteau Neny Chocolate Marteau Playfully caught enjoying French chocolate!
34 Part VI · Imported Into Saudi

Neny Chocolate Marteau

For your secret gourmet stash of Neny chocolate marteau from France—and that adorable, guilty-pleasure smile whenever you take a heavenly bite.

💆 Dating Shows & Duo Massages Dating Shows & Duo Massages Trash dating shows & blissful duo massages
35 Part VI · Will You Accept This Rose?

Dating Shows & Duo Massages

For our favorite guilty pleasures—dissecting every dramatic twist on our favorite trash dating shows together, and indulging in our shared love for massages, especially those heavenly duo massage sessions side-by-side.

🌱 "Feed Tim Seeds!" Nico Seeds Bald Head Nico's miracle cure & Luca giggling beside him
36 Part VI · Nico's Comedy

The Uncontrollable Giggles

For the sound of you dissolving into uncontrollable giggles with the kids—especially when Nico comes out with comedy gold like suggesting we feed Tim seeds to make hair grow on his bald head, while Luca collapses in laughter beside him.

🌙 Conquered Another Day Victorious Evenings Collapsing into the couch or bed as a team
37 Part VI · After Bedtime

Our Victorious Evenings

For that sacred moment every night when the house finally goes silent, the boys are tucked into bed, and we collapse into the couch or bed together knowing we conquered another day as a team.

🦯 Tennis, Rosé & Walking Sticks Our Sun-Drenched Future Growing old together with our walking sticks
38 Part VI · Looking Ahead

Our Sun-Drenched Future & Walking Sticks

Because I can't wait to grow old with you—splitting our lives between our dream spots, supporting our boys, playing tennis, sipping chilled rosé in the sun, and one day walking together side-by-side with our walking sticks, still laughing our heads off.

Thirty-Eight Down · A Lifetime To Go

Happy 38th Birthday, Elena

🎂 Make a Wish! Happy 38th Birthday Elena with the whole family! We love you more every single day!

Forever yours, Agustin